I'm not bashing him or other Nigerian men. The quest of wanting to be married at all cost in the bid to meet up with the standards of the Nigerian society is quite a demanding one. My 2 cents It's been a while I answered a question on quora but this caught my attention. We dont tolerate polygamy here. 10 Signs a Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You. Most of the things you need to know about dating Nigerian men are covered here. Good, honest Nigerian man simply can't get chance to go through and meet someone because of so many heart breaking stories caused by bad Nigerian boys. If a Nigerian man is really interested in getting married to you, he will – 1) Out Of His Ways Just For You: If a Nigerian man wants to marry you he will go out of his ways for you. He is ready to do anything, go anywhere just to please you. If a Nigerian man suspects you to be intolerant of his (sometimes) bad behaviour, he will drop you like a hot potato. I just wanted to know if our marriage was actually legal. Married to a Nigerian man Nigerian men are just like every other men in the world and there is just no specific line or game or attitude that tends to get us excited or pleased. Met a Nigerian man online, got the K-1 Visa, he came, we married...within a month I caught him calling some dating line. Every man is completly different no matter where you are from. All women are beautiful and appealing to Nigerian men; however, not all of these women are qualified enough to be married. It is great that you are happily married for 30 years to your Nigerian man, but things have changed a lot since then thanks predominantly to the internet and other modern ways of communication. I think by now we all know Nigerian men are mostly quite crafty, especially when it comes to relationships and women. It’s like they truly believe these are the last days of seven women to one man, even though there are more men in the world now. He is a good man, I just dont think for me. You’d think it would be just the single men, but the married men are outchea wilding as well. When I confronted him about it he said he did it to know if I was checking his phone records. You also get to see life from the life of a Nigerian (which is clearly different I can assure you). No Nigerian man wants a woman who will grill him at the slightest opportunity. Thats all I wanted to know. This is coming from all the inter woven angles such as the food, music, languages etc. They know the ladies they turn to when it is time for them to ease the pent up sexual tension they have stored in their bodies and they know those they call when it is time to enter the clubs and have fun recklessly. Ask men. just be the original you, learn to love your man and help in every way you can… when you can. For those who wish to know, dating a Nigerian (man or woman) is quite an experience. it is essential to find out about Nigerian men and how they handle relationships especially their behaviours and cultural background just to know how it could affect or influence your future love life. lol. So if he was already married, our marriage wont be legal here.