I did not reply to his email. I’ll stand by you until we become united. Because it is you and I making that history, I will always stand by you, my darling. You want something, go get it. I am not twisting your arm, although it seems you would like it, to read what I post. You don’t have to search any further but simply make a choice. You will now I am coming by the pillar of fire. It is a personality disorder. By the way, I read “Fuel” and it totally resonated with me — not all parts but many. Everyone should. I`m the one with the brown nose…..says the woman who felt the need to say she only has room for one Narc at a time (not me) and refers to HG as the original badass, which isn`t something that even needs to be confirmed because no one is challenging that. 24. Even if the victim provides no resistance to our hoover and willingly returns to us, pouring with positive fuel as we have allowed them back into our arms, the fact we know we can treat people the way that we do and they still want us and provide us with fuel results in potent hoover fuel for us as well. 1. I thought for sure that the lesser would be more responsive to therapy than a greater, given that the greater is aware of who and what they are. Do I have to be of another color to be valued? The mood rings, the bracelets and the beads I will keep you posted as to how this progresses. Mind you, even if the sex was golden period mindblowing I think I’d have to do a runner to escape that dodgy ‘tache …. Or that they grew up with some trauma? 68. eval(ez_write_tag([[728,90],'sweetlovemessages_com-mobile-leaderboard-2','ezslot_27',119,'0','0']));27. I have always been fascinated in observing the personality traits of others. Reblogged this on MARSHALL W THOMPSON, SR. quick question! 9. 50. (physically, not virtually), Beautiful!!! Completely in control while everything around you is out of control. 😉, You are most welcome CJ7. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. We are always apart. What we need to understand, as hard as it is; is that a narcissists personality is ingrained within them. I’ll hold onto you like a rope, trust me I won’t let it slide off my hands. Frying monkeys? We do not truly discard you but instead there is a temporary cessation before we engage once again and continue to draw fuel from you. Sweetness never leaves honey. Once during our “relationship” (I use that term lightly now, as I’ve realized we never had a real relationship), we got into a huge argument. This may well have been through the preparatory work that was engaged in when we targeted you, working out the relevant traits that you had which appeal to us, assessing your susceptibility to our seduction hoover and so forth. SA, we can wait at the shore for HG… This could be fun! Romantic I Would Never Let You Go Quotes for Lover. He did not mean it when he said he would never contact you again, that was a pity play to try to get to you to respond and also to try and lull you into a false sense of security. DO NOT get me wrong, I appreciate him immensely and I myself am totally in love with how beautiful and tantalizing his writing is but to think he really has OUR best interest out of the kindness of his heart is preposterous. Somebody other than us might decide that you have indeed had enough and move on and leave you alone. eval(ez_write_tag([[300,250],'sweetlovemessages_com-banner-1','ezslot_12',113,'0','0']));7. How can I ever let you pass by me when I hope to love you till we get to the other side of the world? I’ll never leave you, I’ll stick with you till the end, my honey. HD, Listening to your videos hurt. Through therapy a narcissist can ” learn ” nicer kinder behaviour, but it’s mostly on a cognitive level. 13. I must admit Rainbow I always enjoy reading when somebody dissects a film or book and identifies our kind, especially when popular thinking sees our kind as something else. Can't Let You Go is quite different from the preceding novels in the series. Can't stop now, don't you know? I guess 2 minutes is enough to hoover me…or I should say WAS enough time to hoover me. You ought to be aware that we have invested our time and energy in you. I actually escaped a past a abusive relationship (when I was 18) for the sake of my newborn son and because I was stalked in a small town, I disappeared into a city with my child. I’ll never leave you, my love. Your condition and state of mind are only relevant to us with regard to whether we can draw further fuel from you. 40. You have people who care about you even knowing what you are . With regard to the spheres of influence and the hoover criteria, if you read Spheres of Influence and Hoover Time !Sphere One, which you will find not he blog that will explain it for you. Each of these times he became extremely angry, would launch a smear campaign, stop contacting me, but only for a short while. I’ll always give that to you because I will never leave you. I ain’t getting on no aeroplane, Murdoch, you crazy fool! When Martin finds where she has escaped to, she realises that their marriage really did mean “Til death do us part”. 67. Rock on, girl (or dude? He said he was angry but still wished me well. “My kind would only go along with the spy in order to secure some kind of outcome for themselves” …..well, hopefully this is the idea in therapy. It’s a nightmare if I ever dream of letting you go. We will of course expend effort in securing new investment opportunities but we are not going to forgo previous investments as well. Do you believe that he did this to control me and to control her, and to hurt both of us? 36. Indy, I completely agree with you. It drives me, it makes me shine and be brilliant so I can gain more fuel. Yes, there are several of the books in paperback now – Escape, No Contact, Sitting Target, Sex and the Narcissist, Revenge, Fuel, Ask the Narcissist and Exorcism. Can't stop now, don't you know? Au contraire. Your sweetness is a magnet, it’s impossible to stay without you, my darling. I am amused by this entertainment displayed. I believe it is self-regulating in the sense that as the fuel levels increase, I feel less need to turn to those appliances and it is only as fuel levels wane that I find I have the need to do so. Divorcing The Narcissist – What To Expect, http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/01/life-as-a-nonviolent-psychopath/282271/. Love is sweet but only with you. I’ll cross the deepest oceans for you, I’ll climb the highest mountains just to be with you. Adele Lyrics. Yes. I define it. I will share my self imposed position as everyone will get knock off the top spot if you are greedy. We have emphasised just how much control we have over you and to have you return, either exhibiting joy, relief and thanks, the quality of this hoover fuel is impressive. I actually hope it is possible but, then again, I’m imposing my desires on another person that may not wish it. Will it be enough for the evil to survive or will he destroy her? It takes time but the reduction is achievable. I ain't never gonna let you go Don't go. There are many here to observe and some I can relate to, but for some reason this song keeps playing in my mind as I read some of these comments. If I stopped, it would adversely affect me. Very kind of you to share your space with another Narc. I never ever wanna hurt ya, I just wanna love ya I just wanna sex you up I wanna give you everything you need, thing you want, just lay down Let me love ya all night long Does fuel stop you from becoming overwhelmed in brain activity. It’s scary to know that the behaviour of these kinds of people are so similar. This is because you have been devalued and abused, admittedly it is not always the case as some victims want us back regardless, but there are many who are at best reluctant and at worst determined to resist us. We grow from all these experiences and I myself have learned a great deal from your types. Don’t get excited, I am not going to tell you that you can expect it, quite the opposite. And unique. 25. In fact I try not to interact with you because I just do not see the point. – I read your article on online dating! Maybe I’m being bitter and cynical. I will stand by you because it is my goal in love. I am not trying to figure you out as I can see you are a cling on. I read your article and checked off essentially every reason as to why I believe my Narc hoovered me in the past. I then CHOSE to reintroduce my son to the ex when my son hit adulthood and could make up his own mind. I want to think that my husband will wake up and decide to allow my love to be enough and come back to the family we built but I’ve come to the grim realization that they are 98% unlikely to change. If we all continue to wake up to who we are and use this as beneficial information to our own growth and healing. I’ll never leave you, my sweetheart. I think there is no hope for a Lesser because they lack any insight into what they are and would react badly to suggestions that there is something wrong with them. She can’t let you go because letting you go means letting go of a piece of her. I’ll never leave you, my love. I understand narcissist feel superior and like a god but I have also read that they have low self esteem and hate themselves and feel as though they are not worthy of love . 8. 52. He would say “i was stupid, idiot, bithc, immature, not woman enough, weak. 44. Thanks for reading Fuel. You’re my first and last. Sweet I Never Let You Go My love messages. It is their personal wiring. It is hard to let you go when I’m this in love with you. My team is one where I am given fuel and in return I light up somebody’s life. But I will be his Huckleberry. I’ll never leave you. He said that everything between us was a lie — that I never did love him, and I never wanted to be with him. We know your strengths, your weaknesses, your vulnerabilities and your pressure points. I’ll never let you go even in the blindness of thick darkness. I’m committed to loving you, my darling.eval(ez_write_tag([[728,90],'sweetlovemessages_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_13',116,'0','0'])); 16. These Narcopaths can sense when you’re vulnerable and have danced with one of their kind! Mind you, even if the sex was golden period mindblowing I think I’d have to do a runner to escape that dodgy ‘tache …. Oh HG, I do love Star Wars but my dear, we both know how this ends… You better think of something more creative. Many things may be destroyed in life, but my promise of sticking with you through thick or thin will never be destroyed by impatience. There has been no greater challenge I’ve faced before than trying to get the narcissist out of my head. Please understand I do not manipulate and hurt people for the sake of it, I do it because I have to in order to gain fuel. I’m sticking with you till the life to come. Get a head start. Does fuel allow organized filing cabinets with expansion when needed. It’s forever. I think there is great power in healing yourself and making different choices. These transgressions may be numerous but most often they are to do with the fact that you escaped us and/or you failed to provide us with the necessary fuel when required. I keep trying to get out of this situation but he’s making it so hard. 6. The sex looks like she must be in the devaluation period, hence her gritty determination to plan and execute an escape. I heard this song the other day, but on this day I didn’t just know the lyrics… I understood them and felt them as I thought of you and your kind.